The marriage ends.
The messages don't.
Move from messaging to communicating.
What nobody tells you
Separation doesn't reduce communication.
It increases it.
You think once you're living apart, the hard conversations will stop. But pickup times, medical decisions, school forms, expenses, holidays, schedule changes — you're going to talk to this person more than you expect, about more than you expect, for longer than you expect.
Every text about Tuesday pickup carries the weight of everything that came before it. That's not unique to you. That's what happens when two people with history try to make decisions together through a screen.
Most parents don't realize
You probably agree on
more than you think.
You both love your kids. You both want this to be as easy on them as possible. Most co-parents are closer to agreement than they realize — but the way they're communicating makes it impossible to act on that.
A question about soccer becomes a fight about something else. A simple expense turns into a referendum on fairness. The shared ground is there — the conversation keeps burying it.
Clearly was built to uncover it.
What makes Clearly different
Other apps bring your patterns with you.
Clearly shifts them.
Most apps digitize the same dynamic that didn't work in your marriage and hand it back to you. Clearly sits between both parents — stripping the emotion, the history, the charge — so only the substance reaches the other side.
Step 01 · The message they'd send
The same pattern from the marriage.
Same tone. Same triggers. Without something between you, this is what reaches the other parent — and the fight starts over again.
Step 02 · Clearly AI reads it
Strip the charge.
The absolutes. The blame. The history — Clearly removes anything that won't help your co-parent respond. What remains is the one thing that actually requires a response: late.
Step 03 · What is delivered
Just the substance.
No tone. No accusations. No history to fight about — just the question that actually needs answering. Nothing is hidden, though: the original message stays preserved in the shared record, and your co-parent can read it in full at any time. It just isn't the first thing they see.
The foundation
Built on frameworks that
resolve real conflict.
The same principles used in mediation and high-stakes negotiation — separate the person from the problem, focus on interests not positions, create a path to a decision.
Because the conversations you're having with your co-parent are genuinely difficult. They deserve a system designed for that.
Grounded in the Harvard Negotiation Project's Getting to Yes framework
Everything included
And yes — it handles the logistics too.
Best-in-class custody calendar. Shared expenses. A today view that surfaces what needs your attention. Everything both parents need, in one place.
01 · Today
Everything in one place.
Clearly.
One screen. Every action, exchange, and pending topic — surfaced and prioritized. No searching, no tabs, no surprises. Just what the next twenty-four hours need from you.
02 · Schedule
Custody without the calendar fights.
The weekly pattern. Holidays. Summer. Swap requests handled in-app, documented, done. Syncs with Apple and Google Calendar so everyone's on the same page — literally.
03 · Expenses
Money, settled.
Log it once. Clearly calculates each parent's share based on your agreed split. No spreadsheets. No interpretation. No "what did we decide again" conversations.
04 · Shared
The source of truth you both trust.
Custody plan. Split agreements. Pediatricians, medications, addresses, school contacts. Everything you've decided together — maintained in one place, always current, visible to both of you.
Not sure where to start?
Build your custody plan. Free. Step through your schedule, holidays, expenses, and exchange logistics at your own pace. Share it with your co-parent, your lawyer — or import it into Clearly to get the app set up in one tap.
Pricing
Less than one difficult conversation costs you.
A single hour of mediation runs $300–500. One avoided conflict pays for the year.
Clearly isn't priced like a utility because it isn't one. It's a system that changes how two people with history communicate about the most important thing in both their lives.
Therapy: $200–300/session · Mediation: $300–500/hour
Clearly: less than two sessions. Used every day.
- AI message processing and tone rewriting
- Shared custody calendar with swap requests
- Shared expense tracking and splits
- Topics that resolve — not threads that spiral
- Full communication record, preserved and timestamped
For the kids.
And for you.
The way you communicate with your co-parent will shape your kids' experience of this more than anything else. Clearly helps you find the common ground, make the decisions, and keep it about the kids.
Free to try · $290/year · iOS